He lent her a sum of money in the past which I think she still hasn’t paid back which could be a factor.I feel that by keeping her in his life, he is being slightly disrespectful to me, as she clearly still has some kind of hold over him for him to put up with this.now you’re starting to block their opinion out because it’s none of their business.Now, I’m assuming you’ve had this experience at least once in your life. And the truth is some of the time the people warning me about a relationship were right…For the last few years we thought addressing any baseless rumors with silence was the best way.
The first time you would take their opinion into consideration (because after all, the person who said it to you is probably someone that you know cares for you.) But regardless of their opinion, it didn’t change yours. Still, you appreciated their sentiment since you knew it was said out of their love and concern for you. Now you’re getting annoyed – they don’t know that person how you know them!
That is the harmful unintended consequence of their bullshit stories and we have a moral responsibility to fix that.